In this edition of Ask Michelle: Advice on Life and Love From a Hot Bartender, Michelle helps people out with advice on everything from engagement rings to man eating bosses. Keep reading as hilarity is sure to ensue.
I’m in a serious dilemma. I love my girlfriend to death but part of me feels like she’s not the one. But I know that’s me being an idiot because she’s perfect. Am I having commitment issues or what? I’m not going to lose the perfect woman because I’m being a pussy.
It sounds to me like you think according to society she fits the bill of perfection. That does not mean she’s perfect for you. Keeping someone because you don’t want anyone else to have them is not love Ronnie. If you have such feelings now they will intensify as time goes by. I suggest you do the right thing and let her go.
Ronnie 32, Philadelphia, PA
I’m into some things sexually that I guess could be considered really kinky. I like being tied up, spanked, and called names. Is there something wrong with me? Are there other girls into this kind of stuff?
Rachel, with the right guy, we as women are into everything. I mean, if this is something you want right off the bat then your adventurous side is slightly more advanced but to answer your question, no we all like it. It just needs to be sparked in us. The chemistry has got to be there.
Rachel 25, Albany, NY
I want to propose to my girlfriend but here’s the thing. I just bought some land to build us a house so I can’t afford an extravagant ring. She’s never been materialistic but I’m scared that a simple ring won’t be enough. What do you think?
I don’t personally know your girlfriend but I could say honestly if someone loved me and wanted to marry me and I loved them too, they could hand me a ring pop and I’d be happy. Get what you can afford see what she’s made of! Good luck.
Johnny 28, Altoona, PA
I’ve been in a “fuckbuddy” situation with this girl. She’s so incredibly hot and the sex is so good but this girl is a terrible person and I don’t want her in my life at all. I’m having trouble breaking it off because of how good the sex is. What should I do?
Well Albert, your problem here is much deeper. Self-control for starters, if you don’t have it how will you ever be faithful to a partner in the future? You should also work on your standards. If a terrible person doesn’t turn you off then you are way too into looks even if it’s just about sex. You need to start preparing yourself to be a man. You are stuck in little boy land and you are already twenty five, it’s kinda sad.
Albert 25, Youngstown, OH
I have a female boss at work and this woman is always on my ass, she’s relentless. She insults me and embarrasses me in front of my co-workers. Sometimes she does little things that make me think she might want me. I’m thinking I should give her what she wants and make my life easier but what if I’m wrong?
Unless she actually told you she wants you to fuck her, I don’t suggest acting on a hunch but if you decide otherwise write me back because this could be really funny.
Nicky 29, Pittsburgh, PA
