This probably goes without saying but Lylith LaVey is a serious hottie. Between the toned body, the sexy face, the tattoos, and the look in her eyes that makes you realize you definitely can’t handle her, Lylith is one sexy lady. One would assume she probably grew up in the heart of New York City or L.A. but she’s a small town girl from Pennsylvania. She’s run the adult industry gamut working first as a stripper, then a nude model, and finally a pornstar. A 4 year veteran of the industry, Lylith’s popularity is growing every day as she continues to churn out sexy scene after sexy scene. MMD had the opportunity to sit down with this East Coast hottie to discuss her start as a stripper, why she initially turned porn down, and whether she prefers the East Coast or the West Coast.
Mens Mag Daily: Okay Lylith, how did you find your way from small town Pennsylvania to the adult industry?
Lylith LaVey: The adult industry kind of chased me down for a little bit actually. When I was 18 or 19 I jumped into the whole stripping thing and I was also in college so that was a busy time for me. I had a profile on a Model Mayhem type of site and I was doing some photo-shoots but not too many. I wasn’t taking it super seriously; it was just to kind of say that I did it and for the experience. I did a couple of nude shoots and that’s when a lot of offers started coming in from the adult industry. I was really snotty about it at first and I thought that I would never be that type of girl to do porn so I just ignored the offers. Eventually I got an offer that just seemed really legit and they made it seem very, very attractive. They offered to fly me down to California and do a scene and if I liked it we could talk and if I didn’t I wouldn’t have to do it ever again and that kind of got my attention since I had never been to California before. Coming from Pennsylvania there’s not a whole lot to do so here I am years later living it out.
Mens Mag Daily: So were you a very sexually inclined person?
Lylith LaVey: Yes absolutely, I was always an exhibitionist before I even knew what that meant. That’s why the stripping thing just kind of made sense for me. I feel like I just naturally wanted to entertain people whether I knew I was doing it or not.
Mens Mag Daily: Was your first scene a nerve-racking experience?
Lylith LaVey: I was so nervous and I must have been driving the staff crazy because I was asking a million questions. After a little while I got the vibe from the director that I should just jump in and enjoy it and not worry about the cameras. It was my first boy/girl scene and it was a group scene with two guys and two girls including me. I was kind of feeding off of everybody else’s energy and I remember thinking that I could get into this. It was an elated feeling. It was a rush for me, the same kind of rush I got before I went on stage to strip.
Mens Mag Daily: And other than stripping you had never done anything like this before?
Lylith LaVey: I was actually a dominatrix for a little while but I had to step away from it because I really didn’t like the amount of psychological power I had over people. I had one client who wanted to see me 2 or 3 times a month and he liked me to insult and verbally abuse him. We were roleplaying and it got a little too serious and the next day I had a voicemail from him telling me that he was really bothered by what had happened and he was unhappy with himself. At that point I realized that no matter how much they were into it during the session there was nothing I could do for them if it struck a nerve afterwards so it was definitely time to step away from it. I just didn’t know how to handle it.
Mens Mag Daily: What about you time as a stripper? What was that like?
Lylith LaVey: I loved it. It took me about two years to get a handle on it in terms of self-confidence and everything. It took time to find my groove and what I was okay with in terms of performing and lap dances. As soon as I found that, I loved it. I worked all the time and at that time I was making really good money. I was happy and okay with the fact that I was a stripper basically all of the time. I also loved the dancing aspect of it because I was always into all forms of dance.
Mens Mag Daily: Did you ever have one of those insane nights where you made a huge amount of money?
Lylith LaVey: Yes and I will never forget it because the owner would come in and there were girls that were there for 10 years that he had never spoken to. He would just call everybody dude and nobody ever really had a conversation with him. One night I made about $2500 dollars and we had a feature dancer that night. When I got off stage there was a line waiting for lap dances but the line was for me. It made me feel really good. By the end of the night the owner called me into the office and he told me I was doing a great job which was unheard of, he never spoke to anybody. It was a good feeling.
Mens Mag Daily: You do fire dancing, what exactly is that?
Lylith LaVey: Okay well, pole dancing and hula hooping have become really popular over the last year or two. They teach classes so I was taking hula hoop classes and I was really getting into it. After class I saw some other people performing with other tools. I saw a female and she was performing and she was amazing. It was so sensual and beautiful. I was there to take a strip class but I cancelled and went to find out about the fire dancing instead. I’ve been doing it for about a year and a half now. I do it constantly and I just get lost in it. It’s the first thing I want to do when I wake up. There are a lot of things you can do with it because fire gets people’s attention. It takes a lot of dedication obviously because fire is dangerous so you have to be prepared. I have eating torches where I actually eat fir. It’s just a little bit of discomfort and it leaves a pretty bad taste in your mouth. I love it, it keeps me in awesome shape and it keeps me healthy.
Mens Mag Daily: Okay so how long have you been in the business now?
Lylith LaVey: I’d say about four years. It’s hard for me to get an exact date because for the first two years I was still flying back and forth but eventually I made the move in 2012. At this point I like the West Coast better but I miss the East Coast people because of their attitudes. Out here people kind of misread my personality at first as standoffish or even bitch which definitely isn’t the case.
Mens Mag Daily: How is your personal sex life compared to your work sex life?
Lylith LaVey: I’m not going to lie, it’s much different. In my private life I really just like to have missionary sex in a bed. I’m kind of boring but I do love having sex in public. I’ve had sex at festivals and concerts. If I think I can pull it off I’ll probably try it. I’ve had a lot of airport sex too. I’ve had sex in the woods once but it was during a hailstorm so we had to stop because we were getting pelted. (Laughs) I’ve never been caught to the extent of somebody saying anything so I must be pretty good at it. I’m a little bit of a professional at it. It’s much easier with a skirt on.
Mens Mag Daily: Okay, Lilith so what do you have coming up that we can look out for?
Lylith LaVey: I have a lot of feature dancing coming up. Next month I’ll be in Allentown, PA at The Fox. I’ll be doing six shows and that’s on August 22nd and 23rd. I have a scene with Lexington Steele out now for Evil Angel that just came out. I’m in the process of getting my website launched and my fans can keep up with me on Twitter at https://twitter.com/lylithlavey.
Article By: Jon DaBove
