Finding, landing, and keeping a good girl is something that every guy is going to want at some point in his life. Unlike dating girls who would be described as the opposite, this takes some effort. The good news is this, a good girl wants to know who you really are as a person so the effort shouldn’t be exhausting, not nearly as exhausting as maintaining a façade all through dinner. Truth be told, it’s all worth it. There comes a time in a man’s life when he wants to settle down and the only way to settle down is with a woman you know you can trust and who loves you unconditionally. They’re not easy to find but when you do, you should be ready. Here are 5 Ways To Impress A Good Girl.
Be Nice To Those Around You: Good girls, though they may seem to be few and far between in this day and age, are good people. They treat others with respect and they command respect for themselves. She was raised right and is polite to everybody she meets. You could be treating her like the Queen of England but if you’re rude or inconsiderate to anybody you’ll be looking for a new girl to date. She doesn’t want a guy who’s an asshole. She’s a good girl and can anyone she wants. If you’re going to call the waiter over to the table, you better do so in a polite way or the next thing you’ll be asking for is the check. Good girls tend to look towards the future and who’s not going to be nice to their date, at least in the early days? She wants to see how you treat others, how kind you are, if you’re really a good guy. You should be doing all of this anyway but it’s imperative if you want to impress, land, and keep yourself a good girl.
Don’t Even Attempt Sex On The First Date: You can kiss, hug, even touch a little but show the girl a little respect. There’s no need to try and rush her into bed. Chances are you’ve gone a lot longer than one night with no sex so one more won’t kill you. Be a gentleman about it. Even if she really likes you and you feel like you could get her into the sack hold off. She’s a good girl so she’s not going to think you don’t like her. She’s going to be impressed with your chivalrous ways and like you even more. Plus, if you wait a few dates, the sex will be that much better.
Bring Flowers: When you’re dating a good girl it’s not the gift, it’s the thought that counts. If you show up to your date with a nice bouquet of roses, she’ll know she’s dealing with a man’s man, who is willing to put in the time necessary to make her feel special. She’ll never ask for a lot and the little things will make her very happy. A good girl deserves a good guy so show her through your actions that guy is you. The effect a good woman can have on a man’s life is immeasurable so make sure to do the little things and she’s sure to be impressed.
Be Completely Honest: If you’re drunk at a club then it’s totally appropriate to tell a girl you’re a NASCAR driver but if you’re on a date with a good woman you need to be honest even if things aren’t perfect in your life. She’s a good person and she’ll understand any little issues you may be having. She’s not looking for a millionaire nightclub owner. She’s looking for a guy who’s going to be good to her and treat her the way she deserves to be treated. A good girl can smell a lie from a mile away and she’ll probably call you out on it and never see you again because she thinks you’re a lying flake.
Open Doors, Pull Out Chairs, and Look Your Best: A good girl is looking for a boyfriend and she’s going to pay attention to how much effort you’re putting in to gauge how much you like her. If you’re really into her then make sure you pay attention to the details. Do the things guys really don’t do anymore. Pull out her chair and open doors; stand up when she gets up to go to the bathroom. Also, look your best and put some effort into the date. Take her to a place where you can wear a suit and dress to the nines. Shine your shoes and make sure your nails are clean. Make sure your car is clean and smells good. Don’t blast music so loud that you two can’t talk and make sure you have some music she’ll be into listening to. This will show her that you’re interested and you want to get to know her. A little effort goes a long way.
Article By: Jon DaBove
